i have to get this out

it's been driving me nuts all day.

why is it that guys can be perverted jackasses all they want and it's funny and just not serious, but when girls act 'suggestive' or make a crude comment, either to hold their own or just because it comes out, that all of a sudden it's "omg what's wrong with you?!?"

i don't get it.
and another thing.. why do 'girlfriends' get pissed when they see a comment on their bf's picture from a girl that's perverted, but silly, but they don't mind all the other comments about the bf being 'hot', 'gorgeous', 'sexy', 'delicious', etc.??

i'm mentioning this because i was called out on commenting someone who usually is extremely perverted and i just said that it looked like his pants were glowing [it really did, i don't even know why] and i added that it was either his pants or 'something inside'... i know i probably didn't need that last part.. but i figured he'd laugh, like he usually does [gf or no gf] but NOOOO.. he freaks on me saying that he has a gf and she wouldn't 'appreciate' that.

umm... WTF? i wasn't trying to be suggestive or perverted. i was trying to make you laugh and i was making an observation. i don't care if you have a gf or not! i never said i WANTED what was in your pants, did i? no. chill out.

if someone left a comment like that on my bf's picture, i'd probably laugh. now, if it was JUST perverted and obnoxious, i'd be irritated, but i wouldn't yell at anyone for it. i'd just see the chick that wrote it as stupid and desperate. i wouldn't get offended. jeez.
maybe i'm just more laid back, idk..

i just don't see the point in making a scene over something like that. i wasn't the first, and i'm deff not going to be the last. maybe he was just irritated today.. who knows.
i'm not hurt or upset, i'm just a bit annoyed.

people get funny when they are dating.
it just happens... maybe that's why i'm single.